
Wasted life
There sure is a lot of wasted life going on. A casual observance of most newscasts will spotlight murders and other crimes. Political fighting and any number of social problems and angry people fill the half hour.
The gossip press concerns itself with important topics that will enrich our lives and the people they report about. Thank God someone is keeping up with George Clooney, Tom Cruise, Britney Spears, and Paris Hilton.
I am just dying to know the latest about Terrell Owens or basketball's latest bad boy.
Maybe people feel better about themselves if they see a rich famous person having problems or breaking rules.
The point is this. If you focus on problems and other people's problems, then you are wasting your daily allotment of consciousness. You are injecting "crap" (for lack of a better word) into your mind and soul instead of "good stuff."
Good stuff is what gives you hope and makes you feel better - legitimately. A good example of what I am talking about is the Liberty Mutual television commercial.
When I watch that commercial, it makes me feel good and it makes me want to do good.
Media has a great power to influence people, but then so do we. I think that commercial is an example of our power at work.
There is a subtle difference in the power of good and the power of evil or bad. The bad stuff seems to be more flashy. It captures the eye and appeals to something in us that likes to rebel. The good is quieter and does not always bring us public praise. Sometimes we are the only ones that know we did it - the good.
The bad stuff does not satisfy for long and we need more. We want bigger and better - soon an addiction is set in motion that is never quenched. That is if we pursue glitz, glamour, fortune, fame, gossip, and surface kinds of things.
On the other hand, the good stuff is quite satisfying and relaxing. It makes you feel that you belong in the world and that you are doing what should be done. Your attitude improves about yourself and others. You can sleep at night and look yourself in the mirror.
I am not talking about ending famines or rebuilding New Orleans on your own. I am talking about smiling at someone, letting someone in in traffic, holding the door for someone at a restaurant and letting them get to the hostess before you, or any number of things that puts someone else first.
The good stuff makes you aware that treasure is a clear starry night or an orange sunset. You know the riches that lie in the wonder of a child or the nuzzling of a puppy.
To do this, we need to slow down and resist getting caught up in the whirlwind and the artificial excitement created in the media and fickle public trends.
Live by principles and not by your feeling of the moment.
Are you driven by winds or guided by a rudder?
I'll leave you with that thought and one more.
Have a great weekend.
Until the next time
John Strain