Friday
Sep162005

The Paradoxical Commandments

• People are illogical, unreasonable and self-centered. Love them anyway.
• If you do good, people will accuse you of selfish, ulterior motives. Do good anyway.
• If you are successful, you win false friends and true enemies. Succeed anyway.
• The good you do today will be forgotten tomorrow. Do good anyway.
• Honesty and frankness make you vulnerable. Be honest and frank anyway.
• The biggest persons with the biggest ideas can be shot down by the smallest persons with the smallest minds. Think big anyway.
• People favor underdogs but follow only top dogs. Fight for a few underdogs anyway.
• What you spend years building may be destroyed overnight. Build anyway.
• People really need help, but may attack you if you do help them. Help them anyway.
• Give the world the best you have and you'll get kicked in the teeth. Give the world the best you have anyway.

Written By Kent M. Keith in 1968

These 10 maxims have been mistakenly attributed to Mother Teresa because they were found engraved on the wall of the home for children in Calcutta, India.

In fact, the 10 maxims were written by Kent Keith in 1968, when he was 19, a sophomore at Harvard College. Kent copyrighted them and included them in a 65-page booklet published for high school student leaders. It had a distribution of about 30,000.

Until the next time
John Strain

Thursday
Sep152005

Our finest hour and our darkest night


Disaster is big business. People are getting rich off of people losing everything. People who lost nothing are realizing a windfall. My guess is the folks who could use help will not get it because of their pride and natural tendency to do for themselves.

Let me explain. The first sentence above is obvious to understand. Disaster is big business. People are lined up outside Home Depot and Lowes waiting to give them money. Generators, chain saws, and every conceivable home repair item is in demand. People in the disaster area with a credit card spend more freely being caught up in the moment. If you have a tree business, are a roofer, carpenter, or have heavy equipment, you will make some good money. One man's disaster is another man's financial opportunity.

My parish, St. Tammany, is getting everything it can from the Federal Government. I found out yesterday that I could get food stamps. Everyone in the parish is eligible. People are receiving $400 to $700 at least in food stamps. I was appalled at people's willingness to take this. I am still working and can afford to purchase food. Why should I take money from the government just because I can? This is a minority opinion judging by the line outside the food stamp office. Are people wrong for doing this? On a legal level, no, but I believe it is morally wrong to take food assistance if you do not need it. Many people who do not need the assistance are lined up getting their “free stuff.”

Some folks are very adept at finding the free stuff. They do not receive help with appreciation and take what they need. They instead are on the hunt for what they can get. The attitude is, "I was in a disaster, now I need to get my check or my free stuff." The disaster relief is a second Christmas to them. I hate to watch greed and gluttony.

I suppose it is a personal choice if you want to stand in line and get your food stamps. It is legal and many are doing it. The letter of the law may say you can have this help, but the spirit of the law should be, "If you do not have the need, do not take the help." Someone is paying for this, don't waste Federal money.

On the front end of charity, it is all good. Individuals all over the world see a need and respond with what they can give. This is a beautiful thing. Then what happens to the money? Where does it go? How is it distributed? I saw a story the other day about all of the fake Katrina Aid websites. Each charity uses a portion of the collections for "administrative costs." I am going to assume much of the money given in love is rerouted to the pockets of the greedy.

Contracts will go to friends and family of the disbursing clerks, the greedy will clamor for the free help, and the good folks who possess pride and responsibility will go about rebuilding their lives with little or none of it.

Billions of dollars are being pumped into the Gulf Coast. I hope the funds are traceable and I hope they have plans for the money. If giving food stamps to everyone in a parish is an example of the disbursement, then a lot of money is going to be wasted.

Photos of the day:

Below - No hurricane damage here, I slammed on this rim the day before Katrina

No hurricane damage here, I slammed on this rim the day before Katrina

Below - Our tree lined streets take on a whole new meaning

A whole new meaning to tree lined streets

Below - How I fixed my DirecTV

How I fixed my DirecTV

Until the next time
John Strain

Tuesday
Sep132005

Katrina and the race card


The winds of Katrina stirred up more than floodwaters and debris; they also fanned the flames of a very predictable and polarized "discussion" about race in America.

As I watch the national cable channels and read editorials on the Internet, I am amazed at how some insinuate race without proof or facts.

This post is not about arguing the Katrina / Race connection or disconnection. I want to back up a bit and discuss race in general.

Simply put, an individual's race is but one characteristic of their whole. Humans are observant and we all notice what color a person's skin is, what color their hair is, how they talk, how they smell, and many other things. This is not racist, this is being observant.

In addition to observing characteristics, we have a set of prejudices or preconceived notions about people who look a certain way. Someone with white pasty skin, purple hair, wearing black, baggy pants with lots of hardware on them is recognized as Goth. A black person with pants halfway down their rear end, wearing heavy chains, tennis shoes, and a sideways hat looks like a rapper. A guy with boots, jeans, and a cowboy hat looks like a cowboy. So far so good, we all do this.

We may have opinions about someone who is Goth, a rapper, or a cowboy. We may prefer or not prefer to be associated with one or more of these groups, but most folks still deal with people individually. "I don't like rappers, but Alex there is a nice guy." "Those Goth folks are strange, but Aaron seems like a nice kid." "I always thought cowboys were hicks, but Charlie is pretty cool." When it comes to the individual, most of us judge them on their own merits.

My definition of a racist is treating an entire race the same simply because they are that race. It could be good or bad. I like him because he is black. I don't like him because he is black, are both racist statements.

Much of the "debate" about race I believe is demeaning to blacks. For Jesse Jackson or Al Sharpton to refer to all blacks and to presume to speak for all blacks is to deny that blacks may hold varied opinions. I believe these two "leaders" are more about self-promotion than they are about helping their race.

Does racism exist in the US? You bet it does, but it is carried out by all races on all races. Blacks can be racists like anyone else. I realize some believe blacks cannot be racists, but I disagree with the proposition.

Blacks who believe they are disadvantaged because of racism have been told this for years by those who claim to lead them. They assume the role of victim, which is never a good role to assume, because it leaves one powerless. A victim waits for someone to fix things.

Humans must learn to overcome. Look at history. Telling blacks they are down because they are victims of racism has not helped them. Blaming someone for your trouble does not make you successful. We must succeed anyway. Struggle is part of the human experience. Some of us may have to struggle with racism, but if we do not overcome it, we will not be successful.

Katrina and racism: The rhetoric about race as it relates to the aftermath of hurricane Katrina is coming from far away. Those making the claims probably have not walked the streets of New Orleans or traveled the back roads of Mississippi.

I have seen healthcare workers of all races working to help patients of all races. Blacks, whites, and Mexicans brush shoulders as they wait in lines for help and as they lend a hand to help each other. Here in the affected area, there is a dominating spirit of goodwill, friendship, benevolence, and brotherhood. If anything, this storm has brought the races together.

I suppose those with agendas will continue to seize perceived opportunities to make their points, but I believe there is a majority of good folks of all races who are intelligent enough to judge all individuals on what they do and not by the color of their skin.

New Orleans is a world city. People here appreciate the influence of other cultures. Our food, fun, and festivals celebrate this diversity.

Today in a group therapy session I asked the question: What has Hurricane Katrina made you appreciate? Some said air conditioning and others said to be alive. One African American lady said, "I appreciate how this hurricane has brought us all together - blacks and whites - we are closer and working together better."

The national news programs would have you believe that the problem of race in America is a powder keg waiting to explode, but I think when you get down to the people, there is a lot more respect and cooperation between races than these folks would have you believe.

Until the next time
John Strain

Tuesday
Sep132005

Listen to French Radio


I received an email from d. abiker with French Radio:
hello john, i'm french and i have a chronicle every morning on the main french radio "France Inter". It is about blogs. This morning I spoke about your blog which is very interesting to understand the situation of people in LOuisiana. Thank's for your blog.

If you want to listen the chonicle (in fench), you can ear it here

http://www.radiofrance.fr/chaines/france-inter01/information/chroniques/chronique/index.php?chronique_id=115020140

see you !
If you do not read French, copy this URL"

http://www.radiofrance.fr/chaines/france-inter01/information/chroniques/chronique/index.php?chronique_id=115020140

. . . and follow this link:
Babel Fish Translation

Paste the URL into the "TRANSLATE A WEB PAGE" dialogue box then choose "French to English" from the TRANSLATE popup menu. Click translate and the page will be translated in a way you can make sense out of it.

I am continually amazed by the things a simple blog can bring about, this is just one more.

Until the next time
John Strain

Monday
Sep122005

For Sale: Katrina Souvenirs


Own a piece of history from the most costly hurricane ever to strike the United States. Perhaps a Katrina pine needle at $1.00 each, at that price, buy several to decorate your home for the fall. You'll be the envy of your friends.

Other souvenirs include tree bark in your choice of pine or oak. Pieces of downed power line certified safe by CLECO utility company, and assorted fragments of debris. These items are sure to make a hit at your next party. Buy several items for party favors. All souvenirs come with their individual certificate of authenticity.

Don't delay, order now in time for the holidays.

For more information contact John Strain, see the email link above. Proceeds will go to my pocket.

PS - Just kidding

Until the next time
John Strain